Make sure you start living your dreams in 2019

It is never too late for you to start living your dreams. It’s a fresh year. All you need to do is to take that step. So why not start now? We always procrastinate. We put off things waiting day after day, year after year. But living your dreams begins with taking a step… no matter how small. Once you start, the rest of the things start falling into place.

Here are some ways to begin living life like you have always wanted to.

Embrace 2019 and start following your dreams

Is it travel?

Even the most boring person will find traveling fantastic. Now, for you to begin this, you need to make some small savings. Start by keeping a few dollars a month for you to realize your dream. You don’t need to break the bank to realize this dream. You can even go to a nearby town and experience fresh things. All you need to do is start small. Before you know it, you will be traveling the world.

Is it a promotion you seek?

If a promotion is what you need, start living your dreams by going for it. Put in more hours at work. Do a small course that will set you above the rest of you colleagues. Be more proactive at work. That extra effort will not go unnoticed. When something comes up, you will be the first to be picked.

Is it starting a family?

Well, there is only one way to do this, right? All you need to do is talk to the person you want to start a family with. So long as you are on the same page then you are good to go.

Start living your dreams by ticking off items off your bucket list

Everyone has things they want to do before they die. How about creating a list of things you want to do and start with the simplest then move on to the harder ones. All you need to do is start. Before you know it, come 2020, you will have checked off most of them. Start living. Start living the dream.

How to be a better employee at work

There’s a lot of advice out there on how to be a better leader, but we often forget that it’s just as important for employees to focus on growth as well. .

Being a better employee at work has many advantages, we all have that one colleague in the office who is loved by all the bosses and he has been promoted at a faster pace. What does he do differently that makes him more likely to be the boss favorite? Let’s discuss some tips to be a better employee at work and to earn more respect and money at the office.

Continuous upgradation

One thing that best performers do to make themselves stand apart is they continuously upgrade themselves to advance levels. Best employees prepare for the skills they need for the next job position which allow them to excel with every competitor.
Join online courses, local workshops, use the internet to upgrade yourself to the upcoming technologies that will help you get faster promotions.


Best employees are not afraid to speak up, so you better have a habit of speaking effortlessly with the coworkers, boss, and customers. Superior communication will help you gain a higher level of recognition.


You will never be able to grow in the career if you cant develop good teamwork skills, higher level of job positions requires you to have extensive teamwork skills by which you can make things possible for yourself.


You will not be able to jump on the managerial job just after your college, you develop leadership qualities while working at a lower level.
Practice leadership qualities to train yourself for higher managerial roles.

Flexibility and adaptability

Every organization requires an employee who is flexible and who can adapt to changing requirements, no one like to have an in-house employee who throws tantrums. You should make your mind to be flexible to work under any discomfort and to be adaptable to changing market demands and situations.


High level of self-motivation keeps your going for the better performance.
If you are not able to perform well at offices, lack of motivation can be a probable reason. Work on your self-motivation, join seminars to help you achieve a higher level of motivation.

Energetic and dressed well.

Most of the employee lacks energy from the beginning of office hours, follow a better lifestyle to have higher energy levels and don’t forget to dress well every day.

Healthy v Unhealthy friendship relationships – what makes them work?

Having genuine friends is essential in life, they make you feel more alive and they stand by your side in every difficult time. Let’s talk about some of the signs of unhealthy relationships and how you can transform a toxic relationship into a healthy friendship.

Signs of an unhealthy relationship

There are some common signs of unhealthy relationships that you should be aware of.

You feel drained: do you feel drained after you meet your friend? If yes, then you should start reconsidering your relationship. This commonly happens because of a lack of positivity attitude and connection within the relationship

He/she can’t keep secret: if your friend is not able to keep the secret to them, that means they are not loyal to you, and you should restrain yourself from sharing any sensitive information with them.

They get jealous: does your friend get jealous of you if you achieve something better? You should stay away from such people, they will always pull you back to perform well,

Trust issues: many people can’t trust their friend but choose to stay with them, it’s a situation you should be aware of. If you can’t trust your friend then its time to join new communities and discover new people around you.

healthy v unhealthy relationships

Tips to transform the unhealthy relationship into a healthy relationship.

Sometimes small steps can transform an unhealthy friendship into a healthy friendship, here are few ideas to improve the bond.

Communicate: communication is an efficient tool that can shorten the distance in the relationship, a healthy relationship consists of two-way communication which allows friends to express themselves.

Be honest: being diplomatic is good but sometimes you need to be honest about the toxic friendship.

Take a break: if you are not sure about your friendship then taking a break can be an effective solution.

Understand and Forgive: you cant achieve the inner peace until you give up all grudges and forgive. Forgiving your friend is essential to allow your friend to fix their mistakes.


Is A Casual Relationship Something That Can Work?

For me, casual relationships are beautiful; imagine a relationship where you are not obligated to follow any stupid rules and can feel free to enjoy the movement instead of getting over possessive.

I had been in a committed relationship and I have been through casual relationship; let me tell you one thing, being in a casual relationship felt way more pleasing and satisfying. One of the biggest reason why I love being in a casual relationship instead of being in committed relationship is because of the end of relationship, Committed relationships often end with ugly fights whereas casual relationships start on the basis of mutual interest and mutual respect, and you are obligated to be in relationship just because you promised.

Let’s discuss the Perks and Drawbacks of casual relationships.

Perks of being in a casual relationship

  • No games please: For the first time in life I experience the meaning of truly being with someone, being in a casual relationship was like being with your best friend. You hide nothing and you are not required to play any games to impress your partner. You can be what you are.

Casual relationships

  • Enjoy the freedom: Still being in a relationship you can still enjoy the freedom of being single, you can still hang out with friends and get drunk till you pass-out, no one is there to force etiquettes on you.
  • No need to lie: you are not required to lie about your conversation with other girls or boy, you are together on the basis on mutual trust not because of some stupid promises that you want to break silently.
  • Not obligated to do anything: Personally I was fed up with obligations of that comes as an add-on to any relationship, why get yourself in a relationship when you are ought to do things according to relationship rules.
  • The absence of stupid emotions: most of the people in the relationship are together because of sex and emotional needs but in casual relationships, you are not bound because of some emotional needs, you are together because you like to spend time and you appreciate the personal space as well.
  • The purest form of relation: in a committed relationship you are liable to be true full because of the commitment you had, but in a casual relationship you are together because you want to be. You both get drunk without any hesitation, you enjoy personal space to enjoy with your friends and you have sex to stay connected. You don’t need society’s rules to have sex with the one you are attracted.

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Drawbacks of being in a casual relationship

  • You may lose a friend: casual relationships happen between good friends usually, and in case of any breakup you might lose a wonderful friend.
  • You might lose your partner if they find someone better: because of the only fact that they are not bound to be with you just because they said that.
  • Being brutally honest can backfire: every coin has two different faces and they might be aware of your single face, being honest in a relationship may also lead to a break-up.
  • Most of the casual relationships lack love and respect: because of few stupid people who consider casual relationship just to have casual sex with someone.
  • Chances of heartbreak: In your journey of being in a casual relationship, chances of falling in love with the partner are high and it might lead to heartbreak because of the same reason that your partner was never in love with you.


Casual relationships are the most practical relationship you can have with your partner, you will not be obligated to follow any rules that are choking you, you are

I have just shared what I experienced being in both kind of relationship, and I am leaving it up to you whether you still like to be in a casual relationship or committed relationship.