Healthy v Unhealthy friendship relationships – what makes them work?

Having genuine friends is essential in life, they make you feel more alive and they stand by your side in every difficult time. Let’s talk about some of the signs of unhealthy relationships and how you can transform a toxic relationship into a healthy friendship.

Signs of an unhealthy relationship

There are some common signs of unhealthy relationships that you should be aware of.

You feel drained: do you feel drained after you meet your friend? If yes, then you should start reconsidering your relationship. This commonly happens because of a lack of positivity attitude and connection within the relationship

He/she can’t keep secret: if your friend is not able to keep the secret to them, that means they are not loyal to you, and you should restrain yourself from sharing any sensitive information with them.

They get jealous: does your friend get jealous of you if you achieve something better? You should stay away from such people, they will always pull you back to perform well,

Trust issues: many people can’t trust their friend but choose to stay with them, it’s a situation you should be aware of. If you can’t trust your friend then its time to join new communities and discover new people around you.

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Tips to transform the unhealthy relationship into a healthy relationship.

Sometimes small steps can transform an unhealthy friendship into a healthy friendship, here are few ideas to improve the bond.

Communicate: communication is an efficient tool that can shorten the distance in the relationship, a healthy relationship consists of two-way communication which allows friends to express themselves.

Be honest: being diplomatic is good but sometimes you need to be honest about the toxic friendship.

Take a break: if you are not sure about your friendship then taking a break can be an effective solution.

Understand and Forgive: you cant achieve the inner peace until you give up all grudges and forgive. Forgiving your friend is essential to allow your friend to fix their mistakes.


Is A Casual Relationship Something That Can Work?

For me, casual relationships are beautiful; imagine a relationship where you are not obligated to follow any stupid rules and can feel free to enjoy the movement instead of getting over possessive.

I had been in a committed relationship and I have been through casual relationship; let me tell you one thing, being in a casual relationship felt way more pleasing and satisfying. One of the biggest reason why I love being in a casual relationship instead of being in committed relationship is because of the end of relationship, Committed relationships often end with ugly fights whereas casual relationships start on the basis of mutual interest and mutual respect, and you are obligated to be in relationship just because you promised.

Let’s discuss the Perks and Drawbacks of casual relationships.

Perks of being in a casual relationship

  • No games please: For the first time in life I experience the meaning of truly being with someone, being in a casual relationship was like being with your best friend. You hide nothing and you are not required to play any games to impress your partner. You can be what you are.

Casual relationships

  • Enjoy the freedom: Still being in a relationship you can still enjoy the freedom of being single, you can still hang out with friends and get drunk till you pass-out, no one is there to force etiquettes on you.
  • No need to lie: you are not required to lie about your conversation with other girls or boy, you are together on the basis on mutual trust not because of some stupid promises that you want to break silently.
  • Not obligated to do anything: Personally I was fed up with obligations of that comes as an add-on to any relationship, why get yourself in a relationship when you are ought to do things according to relationship rules.
  • The absence of stupid emotions: most of the people in the relationship are together because of sex and emotional needs but in casual relationships, you are not bound because of some emotional needs, you are together because you like to spend time and you appreciate the personal space as well.
  • The purest form of relation: in a committed relationship you are liable to be true full because of the commitment you had, but in a casual relationship you are together because you want to be. You both get drunk without any hesitation, you enjoy personal space to enjoy with your friends and you have sex to stay connected. You don’t need society’s rules to have sex with the one you are attracted.

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Drawbacks of being in a casual relationship

  • You may lose a friend: casual relationships happen between good friends usually, and in case of any breakup you might lose a wonderful friend.
  • You might lose your partner if they find someone better: because of the only fact that they are not bound to be with you just because they said that.
  • Being brutally honest can backfire: every coin has two different faces and they might be aware of your single face, being honest in a relationship may also lead to a break-up.
  • Most of the casual relationships lack love and respect: because of few stupid people who consider casual relationship just to have casual sex with someone.
  • Chances of heartbreak: In your journey of being in a casual relationship, chances of falling in love with the partner are high and it might lead to heartbreak because of the same reason that your partner was never in love with you.


Casual relationships are the most practical relationship you can have with your partner, you will not be obligated to follow any rules that are choking you, you are

I have just shared what I experienced being in both kind of relationship, and I am leaving it up to you whether you still like to be in a casual relationship or committed relationship.